Once the engine was started by RAC the oil pressure light did not appear for about 1 min after driving it.
The setup on these is stupid to be honest. You can have zero oil pressure on idle and the light will not come on. The oil pressure warning is only set to come on when the engine is above a certain RPM (I think it's 1500, but I can't remember exactly).
So you could have zero oil pressure and leave the engine running day and night on idle....the car won't make a peep....until of course the inevitable bottom end engine failure begins to occur.
So just because the pressure light never came on when started up and at idle / low RPM that doesn't mean anything. This is exactly why I said to get an oil pressure gauge. That warning light on the dash is beyond useless and is NOT to be relied upon.
By the way, the thread size / pitch for the oil pressure gauge you need will be M10 x 1.0 and you need a 24mm deep socket to remove the oil pressure switch in the oil filter housing.
If you remove the oil pressure switch and fit a gauge and oil pressure is good at idle (above 0.8 bar), then check it at 2000 RPM, it should be 2.0 bar and above. Just remember that because the oil pressure switch is disconnected you WILL get a warning on the dash when you test at 2000 RPM. However as long as the pressure on the gauge is good (2.0 bar and above) then you can ignore the warning.
If you connect the gauge and there is no pressure at idle just turn it off and do not continue any further. Once you have confirmed no oil pressure it is time to start taking things apart. If you know you have a chain driven engine then the kit to buy to repair the fault would be the one I mentioned above.
It would also be a good idea to buy some conrod & main bearing cap bolts. That way you can remove the bearing cap for the conrod and main bearing nearest the flywheel (these tend to fail first) and inspect the bearings themselves. If the bearings are good you can refit with new bolts and continue with the modification. If the bearings show abnormal wear (metal on metal contact) due to the lack of oil pressure then you have a bigger issue to deal with, but that it something you will never know until you take it apart.
Most people get away with either no damage or simply just damage to the turbo when this failure occurs as long as the engine was turned off quickly. So if your wife turned off the car as soon as she saw the light I would suspect that it will need the kit linked to above to fix the fault and a new turbo at most, but as I have said, always good to check the bearings just for peace of mind.