It depends what your intentions for the car are. If it's going to be a work horse you don't care about, nor about the way it drives then go for SMF. Do expect extra vibration as explained by
@S3Alex and again he's right...you can notice on a petrol engine and definitely notice on a diesel.
The DMF is all about smoothing out the gear changes and the 'set off' of the car, and more importantly protecting the input side of the gearbox from all those vibrations.
If you want to keep the car nice and OEM and keep it driving nice, I'd definitely stick with DMF. Unless they are totally abused DMFs easily last 100,000 miles and no offence mate but with that 1.9 engine you aren't exactly throwing 500ft lb of torque through it.
To give you a balanced point of view, I will say that I am against the principle of SMF conversions in general, never did it on my Corolla and haven't on the Audi. Some things are there to be messed around with, and some things just aren't.
There will be plenty of people, however, who have done the SMF conversion and love it. There are also those who have had no detrimental effect on any other component of their car...my only argument to those is if Audi put a DMF in it, keep it that way lol.
One thing I will say - drive one that has had the SMF conversion done. Don't go on the hear-say of mechanics, they will have you seeing flying pigs before you know it.
Also if you do go SMF, get a good quality conversion kit like a LUK, don't go for something like National...whoever the hell makes those hehe.