It all depends how much you want to be spending?
Personally I'd be changing the decat for a sports cat with a full system of your choice, you could also look into a cold air induction system, it doesn't give huge gains but it does sound good and with these mods you can then get a Stage 2 remap, if you want to go that bit further you can look into getting a High pressure fuel pump, then you could go Stage 2+ with the remap but you may also want to look into a new clutch too.
The above is the minimum requirements for the maps, you could also look into intercoolers and injectors but one important thing is to replace the useless PCV to a catch can system which should stop some of the **** going back into the engine. If you want to spend big then look at the APR B7 S3 upgrade (basically a new turbo and manifold)
So like I said, it really depends on how much you want to spend. One thing though.... Make sure that your car is in good condition before you look into modding!